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11. 01. 19
posted by: Faizel Patel




I have nothing against Islamic scholars and have the utmost respect for some of them as they impart knowledge that is beneficial and have the ability to spiritually uplift a down trodden person or Ummah. 

However, there are some Aalim’s that even after years of studying the Islamic sciences, have failed to implement the beauty of Islam in their own lives.

This is a sad reality that I refused to believe, but no matter how much I or anybody else may try to deny or even sweep it under the carpet, the moral degradation of these esteemed personalities is prevalent for all to see and that is very frightening and worrying.

In an age where the Muslim Ummah needs spiritual upliftment and voices of reason to form strong bonds of unity, the conduct of some Islamic scholars leave a lot to be desired and makes one wonder how they will answer for their atrocious behaviour to the Supreme Being above.

Besides the notorious Majlis who has denigrated esteemed Muslim scholars with the most expletive and ugly words that leave you shocked and can’t believe that one could express such horrid sentiments about a fellow Muslim, there are others that have just “totally lost the plot” so to speak.

Like “The Maj” I’ve had my fair share of vitriol spewed at me. In retrospect, I’ve experienced the dark and ugly side of these Islamic scholars that supposed to be emanating knowledge and light.

Without going into much detail, I had a Qari swear me F’s & B’s and call my wife the most ugliest of names because I wrote a story about him being reported missing and attaching his photo which was being widely circulated at the time.

When I confronted him about his despicable behaviour and language, he retorted saying Aalims have a right to defend themselves and can use foul language. Is this true?

In another incident, an Aalim stormed my place of work hurling accusations at me in front of my colleagues when he hadn’t even got the facts of the story straight.

I wish I could have named & shamed him, but I won’t stoop to his level. This Moulana even freakin fought with our receptionist accusing him of lying saying he didn’t want to put calls through to me.

There are a number of incidents like this that I and many people have experienced and even witnessed. If I had to write a story for every email I’ve received from people that complain about Islamic scholars, I will be kept busy writing for a long time.

The question is where do these Islamic scholars come from?

They really embarrass and make fools of themselves and the religion that they preach and supposed to practice as set out in the holy Qur’an and the greatest human to have ever set foot on this earth.

I do not have anything against Islamic scholars. As a matter of fact some of the most esteemed Aalims, without naming them are my friends and I’ve learnt tons from them including using their lectures and advices sharing it with others whether on air, in person or in company.

It’s a sad reality that we live in and I do hope it’s only a temporary issue that can be resolved. I do hope that these Islamic scholars revert back onto the path of benevolence and see that being an Aalim is more than just being ugly to people.

It’s about having the moral obligation and responsibility that weighs a ton, studying for years, to teach and set examples and assist those that are misguided to revert back on to the straight path. But most of all, to ensure that the Ummah is united instead of divided.

While I am not an Islamic scholar, I do believe that for the Muslim ummah to strengthen the current force of unity, we need to go back to the basics and that is salaah and ensuring we uphold it tenets.

Nabi (SAW) had warned that if we do not fill the sufoof correctly, entirely, then what would happen is, our hearts would become disunited. This is something that would lead to major problems within our own ranks and we do not want to go down that route.

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21. 10. 18
posted by: Faizel Patel




Don’t get me wrong. I don’t hate Muslims. As a matter of fact, I don’t hate anybody at all.

But there are some Muslims that are so judgmental of others, it’s deeply concerning. They judge you on what you post on social media, what you like and what you do, among other things, without actually trying to find out who you really are or what you really stand for.

You don’t know me… You know my public profile, but besides those that are close to me, nobody knows who I really am and what I am like in person.

While I may not be the perfect embodiment of a Muslim or possibly not the most qualified to write about being the subject of thousands of people’s guise and attention, given the fact that I am in radio and a personality amongst the Indian and Muslim communities, it does come with a huge price.

The perils of being famous does take its toll and I didn’t realise this until I decided to thrust myself into the profession that I love so much…Journalism. 

Before joining radio, or Islamic radio, I was and still am an ordinary and normal person, doing everyday things. I must admit, I grew up watching TV, going to movies, playing video games, listening to music and doing everything else a normal person or teenager would do. This is something that had been ingrained in me for a very long time.

When I joined Islamic radio, obviously adjustments had to be made. However, while these changes were being implemented, I couldn’t change my character, that’s the person I am, that’s the person I was and the person that I will remain.

So while I confine myself to the laws, rules and regulations of Islam, being judged on what other people perceive me to be is just something that is not acceptable and is very hurtful.

There are a number of issues that plague the Muslim world and communities around the globe. One being the whole Jamal Khashoggi saga, which I don’t intend going into because this post is not a political piece.

The Halaal Haraam issue, the attending of functions that are not so called “Halaal enough”, listening to music and taking pictures are some of the topics that have been thrown in my face by Muslims. Those that claim to be holier than though, but have a closet full of skeletons.

While I understand that I am an ambassador for a Muslim organisation, what I sometimes do in my personal capacity is reflected upon the entire radio station. Naturally, because you are seen as an extension of the brand, but a line has to be drawn at a point.

Some might say this comes with the territory and I agree. But what really angers me is the duplicity and the hypocrisy of some Muslims.

Now you’ll assume that this blog post is an attack on Muslims. This is far from the truth. I am not attacking anybody. I am merely stating what society’s norms have instilled upon everybody including Muslims themselves.

So, you want to criticize me, embarrass my wife and me on social media, attack my children at school telling them: “your father is like this and like that” for eating out at a restaurant at say for example Monte Casino. But you yourself are there, possibly eating in the same restaurant, taking a photo of me. So why is it good for you to be there, but not good for me?

Above all, you took the photo of me, posted it on social media and other various platforms like WhatsApp including sending it to my superiors with a caption that reads: “Check Radio Islam’s Faizel Patel out at Monte Casino gambling.” But that’s not the truth. Why are you lying? And you call yourself a Muslim? I was there to have supper. I could’ve gone anywhere else, but I decided to go there. What’s the problem with that? The restaurant is certified halaal. What’s the problem?

This is something that is becoming an intrusive invasion of my life when I am with my family. And while many people won’t understand, it’s not easy being in the spotlight. I cannot go to the toilet without being photographed or being reported on. It’s frustrating and I hate the lengths people go to, to sneak a pic and share it to put me in a bad light.

Everybody loves the spotlight, the fame, the recognition, the so called “celebrity status”, but it can be a perilous position to be in. Why are people so judgmental?

A few years back and I am in no way worried and justifying, because I don’t really care of who likes me or who doesn’t on social media or in reality. I wasn’t put on this earth to please people, but rather to please God and He is the Judge of Judges.

But the fact is, if you judge me before you give me a hearing, than that’s something I cannot accept and I am going to use an example, because this clearly illustrates the extent that some people would go to, to believe preconceived perceptions about me.

As someone who loves and breathes technology, I was an avid follower of one tech journalist on social media. I am not going to mention names, because it doesn’t really matter who it is, because the point is, learn the truth before you judge.

I have to admit, she is phenomenal at what she does. She’s educational and I’ve learnt a lot. But in the last year or so, I’ve realised that she blocked me on Twitter and I couldn’t understand the reason why. Now don’t get me wrong. I don’t mind being blocked. It happens all the time with me even blocking some people myself.

So, I began the elaborate process of finding out why I was blocked. Because that’s what journalists are supposed to do right? To find out the truth, to investigate what actually happened.

When I found out that I was blocked because I supposedly said that: “women are not supposed to be in the technology field, or tech reporters or journalists,” I was shocked. When did I say this? I don’t recall ever uttering this nonsense or posting it on social media.

I checked my timelines, Twitter, Facebook, and Instagram using the necessary tools and never came across such post. After an intensive investigation, I discovered that someone else with the same Twitter handle as mine “Faizel Patel” was posting news stories, comments and accusations against other fellow tweeps, journalists and people about the Islamic ethos that they are supposed to confine themselves to. They posted unverified events, news, and other information with the malicious intent to create the perception that it was me.

This infuriated me, because as journalists, we always verify before we post or write stories by speaking to official sources and spokespeople including editing the details of the piece.

So what I did was, and this was disheartening because what was being preconceived to be posted by me wasn’t the truth and yet I was blocked. I have to stress, I don’t care about being blocked and I don’t care if the person that blocked me reads this, you are welcome to do what you want. But I was blocked for something that didn’t even have anything to do with me.

So, I wrote to Twitter, explained to them the incident that I am in the media fraternity, mainstream and Islamic and that this is what had transpired and they verified my account.

Now, the thing is, even after being a verified Twitter user and engaging the person on email and in person trying to explain that this is what happened. This person, didn’t want to hear anything at all. I think that’s grossly unfair, because this person judged me on what they deemed to be a post on social media by me. Instead what they did is relay my intentions to share the matter to someone else indicating that I was actually harassing them. Can you believe this garbage? I burst out laughing. What has the world come to?

This is the extent that people go to, to sometimes tarnish my name or judge me based on the whims and fancies of others.

I can’t even recall the number of times that I was attacked on social media and while it used to irk me, it now really doesn’t faze me at all. Now and again I will post something on Facebook if I really had a bad day, but I am working through that and hopefully I will develop an even thicker skin to deal with such issues.

Coming to the issues of Muslims being hypocrites and sometimes duplicitous, and I said I wouldn’t touch on this but… Let take the Khashoggi issue and I am not speaking about the politics of it. I’ve seen a post recently that’s calling for the boycott of Hajj and Umrah by Muslims in South Africa because of the Khashoggi incident.

So, let’s ask this question. South Africa already has a growing waiting list of people wanting to go for Hajj and Umrah. Our hajj quota is only about 3,500 and we are always begging for more people to go, hoping for an increase in the numbers.

It’s everybody’s desire to go for Hajj and Umrah and yet, while we are striving for the increase in the quota’s you calling for a boycott because of what Saudi Arabia did? Have you forgotten at whose invitation you are embarking on this journey of a lifetime? Have you not looked at the bigger picture that you want to go for Hajj, you want to go for Umrah to fulfil your 5th pillar of Islam? I don’t want to speak about what the Saudi’s did, because that’s not the issue I am writing about.

It’s the issue of being a hypocrite. The same people who are calling for a boycott, that are criticising the Kingdom of Saudi Arabia, are the same people that are standing first in line for Hajj and Umrah visas, are the same people that are arguing and fighting with the South African Hajj and Umrah Council (Sahuc) saying they are not doing a good enough job to get extra quotas, or Hajj is too expensive.  It’s these Muslims that are the hypocrites.

It’s these people that fly Saudi Arabian Airlines flight for Hajj and Umrah, want to stay in top hotels, eat the best food in Makkah and Medina, smile at the Saudi guards in Masjid-un-Nabawi to get extra time to pass on more salutations to our beloved Muhammad (PBUH). It’s these people that make use of all the facilities and services in the Kingdom of Saudi Arabia that makes your stay pleasant and enjoyable and your Hajj and Umrah easier. It’s you that push and prod in the Haram to get to the first line so you can meet Sheikh Abdul Rahman Al Sudais or the other Medina and Makkah Imams. Have you forgotten they are Saudi’s? You leave Saudi Arabia bearing gifts. You want the best right? and you get the best the Saudi’s have to offer, yet you are totally ungrateful. Why? Why are you being hypocritical?

You get the best, yet you criticize the Saudi’s, you speak bad about them but you are the first one standing and even sleeping outside the Saudi Embassy for a visa for you and your family to go for Hajj and Umrah.

While I understand that Hajj is an invitation from Allah, you need to be fair. You can’t fence sit.

So don’t tell me about what I should write about or not write about, because while you yourself criticize some of the issues I write about, you are also the first one to embrace certain benefits that come with certain people that might be associated with that issue.

Let me further illustrate the hypocrisy of some Muslims. Last year I got into hot water for taking a photo with a good friend of mine. But that’s not all it.

You know the irony of me getting into trouble for taking what they called an “inappropriate photo” is the fact that the people who reported it, are the same people, in long kurthas, with long beards, toppi’s who were all scrambling on stage trying to get close to Human Settlements Minister, now International Relations Minister  Lindiwe Sisulu and sneak a pic. I know, because they handed me their mobile phones to take the photos, with arms around the Minister. They condemn, but do the same. What a hypocritical world we live in, a sad reality of the characters of some people.

Even when I report on technology, it’s a problem. The hypocrisy of some Muslims clearly evident.

It seems the holier than though “technology is haraam” police are quick to say that writing about and using technology is haram, yet are hypocrites using technology to tell me about it...Tweeting, Facebooking, WhatApping and Instagraming. 

Enough about that. Also, what has happened to the Ummah? What has happened? I am lost for words to describe the level of degradation that the Muslim ummah has slipped into. We have become so disunited, that it’s absolutely shocking.

At a lecture at the Nurul Islam Masjid in April ahead of Workers Day on 1 May, Ml Sulaimaan Ravat explained about the character of some Muslims.

Being brutally honest in the hard hitting and eye opening lecture, Ml Ravat reiterated that there is a desperate need for some Muslim employers to treat other Muslims and even their employees better.

“They are on their knees cleaning the toilets in our home and our wrongful behavior is passed onto the next generation. Sometimes your hair stands on end, when you see how small children in a home talk to the domestics who are old enough to be their grandparents. Where did they learn that from? Do we think we will only account in front of Allah for Salaah, Zakaah, Hajj and Saum? We will have to account for in front of Allah in terms of how we treated these human beings, even if they are not Muslims.”

Ml Ravat also exposed the shocking racist behavior of some Muslims.

“There are many womenfolk in our homes, elderly’s, our mothers and grandmothers, who are very pious, they burn holes in the musallah, and they read more Qur’an than even the ulama and the hufadh. They are more punctual with their salaah than all of the men. But they have racist tendencies and they ill-treat the domestics because they are of different skin colour.”

I know I am going to be criticised for this blog post because calling some Muslims hypocrites and duplicitous is not something that should be written about right? Why? Do we want to sweep the bad traits Muslims have slipped to under the carpet? We have to face the fact, some Muslims have become monsters. It’s scary and you have to be afraid, be very afraid.

Over the past few weeks, renowned Islamic scholar Mufti Ismail Menk has posted some wise anecdotes on social media and sometimes I thought these posts were solely directed at me. While it was just a general post, it resonates so much that I’ve been going through with the certain segments of the Muslim community.

In one post on Twitter Mufti Menk says: “Everyone will have their opinion about you; who you are and what you stand for. None of these opinions matter because the Almighty is the only one who knows the real you. Work hard at being the best possible version of yourself. Don't be distracted.”

In another post he says: “Think well of others and see what it does to your heart. Each time you hear something bad about someone, don’t spread it, give him the benefit of the doubt. Put yourself in his position. Protect yourself from worrisome thoughts that disturb your mind. Keep the peace!”

But it’s this post by Mufti Menk that I hope resonates with some Muslim people that have really impeded my life and make it their concerted mission to destroy my image not sparing a thought for what it would do to my family or me. Whether it’s out of jealousy or spite, who knows. Mufti Menk says: “Look down upon the sin & not the sinner. The fact is we all sin. Every single one of us. Stop thinking you’re above everyone else. Don’t treat others like they are insignificant. A person who is down today can climb up tomorrow. Only the Almighty knows what the future holds!”

These are such pertinent points and lessons for all of us. Let us learn from this and I know that while I can preach and preach, write, go on air or even speak to people on social media, WhatsApp, Twitter, while I hope it’ll make a difference, I feel it won’t, unless people are willing to change, are willing to engage.

I am a journalist, but first and foremost I am a Muslim. In your eyes, I may be a bad person or do not conform to your version or as some might say even to the sharia rulings, I don’t think that you are qualified enough or have the right to judge me based on what you perceive to be the so called truth.

Are you challenging the Judge of Judges? The Master of the Day of Judgment? Because until He judges me, and shows me that I have done wrong, you are not in a position to tell me what to do.

There are so many other issues I would like to write about, some of which are really sad like some Muslims using other Muslims to pursue their hidden agenda’s to execute a decision they were not man enough to enact. 

Everyone was created equal in the eyes of God. It brings me to George Orwell’s book ‘Animal Farm’ Moral dilemmas decay society..."All animals are equal, but some are more equal than others. This line highlights the epitome of our society...Very sad indeed. If only we could live up to the example that Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) has set out for us, we would be a nation with polished and shining hearts.

May Allah guide us all onto the straight path and unite Muslims across the world

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13. 03. 17
posted by: Faizel Patel


Faizel Patel - 13-03-2017

Pic: Urban Armour Gear (UAG)

Technology has certainly changed my life. While limited finances allow me to keep up with the latest gadgets and gizmos which may cost a small fortune, I try to also keep my gear equally protected.

My iPad Pro 9.7" literally goes everywhere I go. It’s a piece of equipment that any reporter should carry with him. The iPad has changed the face of how journalists file stories. 

But enough of the iPad for a while. To keep my iPad protected, the first thing that I did was get a gorilla screen protector. These protectors can save you thousands of Rands if you drop your iPad because it absorbs so much of the impact and protects the screen. 

Another must have is a cover for the iPad. While some people may go for the smart cover which is quite expensive, I opted a few times for the Bodyglove covers. 

They come in about 4 colours which include red, purple, black and grey. The problem I had with these covers is they were cracking, especially at the corners. 

I had three Bodyglove covers and they all cracked at the corners. I must say that at no time did I drop my iPad for the cover to crack.

After reporting the matter to Bodyglove, they replaced my cover with a similar one and here I am 3 months later, with a similar problem. 

So I scouted tech shops and scoured the shelves for some adequate protection for my tablet. 

I have seen the Urban Armour Gear (UAG) covers before but they always looked bulky despite offering good protection for your device. 

I picked one up and was pleasantly surprised to learn that looks can be deceiving and that the covers are quite slim and light weight.

 The UAG covers with its frogskin exterior seem to offer superior protection for devices and also has some other features which include being drop tested, a holder for the Apple Pencil and smart keyboard compatible amongst others. 

The UAG covers for iPad are by no means cheap, retailing for about R999 at major tech shops and about R758 at mainstream online shopping websites. 

 Distributed by Gammatek, the UAG iPad covers come in exciting colours which include, black, midnight, magma and cobalt.

When I finally got the UAG cover and put I my iPad in it, the cover felt sturdy and protected. The iPad is secured in a rubber housing with extended rounded corners for extra protection. 

The magnetic clasp is a nice touch to keep the cover closed. I particularly enjoyed that the front cover can be unclipped and the iPad can be repositioned in portrait after reattaching the cover. While it does feel bulky, my iPad does feel secure and protected.

On the back you get an included stand the can adjust to almost any angle so you get the ultimate viewing experienced based on your personal preference. 

What I was worried about though is the velvet finish on the front inside cover while it offers soft protection for the screen, it might be a dirt or dust magnet. It seems easy to clean but will the lush feeling last?

I also like the rugged feel of the cover. The frogskin exterior along with the rubber grooving makes it easy to grip and won’t slip easily of out of your hand while holding the iPad. The back of the cover has a military grooved design which is quite cool.

Overall the UAG seems like a good cover for my iPad Pro, but as I use it in the field, time will tell if it will weather the storm.


Twitter: @FaizelPatel143


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22. 10. 17
posted by: Faizel Patel


Faizel Patel - 22-10-2017

 What could be the possible reasons for the lack of intimacy between a husband & wife?

So the other day, a friend who is single asked me, is it true that married couples don’t have an active physical or sexual relationship?

I must admit, I was stumped by the question, but it got me thinking if what he was asking is really a fact or even true?

So I conducted a poll and the results were shocking. Fifty one percent of respondents who answered the question if they had a physical and active relationship, said no. 

What was surprising though, is that most of the respondents were men, who were totally frustrated by the lack of sexual activity during a marriage. 

The situation is somewhat exacerbated by the arrival of children who take up a lot of time, which would otherwise be spent amongst husband and wife. 

I am in no way condoning not having children and I am not councilor, but merely writing from experience that kids sometimes do have an impact on the sexual relationship between a couple and occasionally when they are young have the perfect timing to disrupt a session, if you get my drift. 

So what contributes to a lack of physical or sexual activity in a marriage besides the kids? Fatigue plays a huge role in the situation. When one partner comes home from work or is very tired and falls asleep on the couch even before the clock strikes eight. 

This fatigue also hampers the efforts by the other partner to initiate physical or sexual activity, which over a number of years can become habit. 

Men have been complaining for years and even some women about the lack of physical or sexual activity. While humans are fallible, thoughts of infidelity do creep in which sometimes sways the perception that this may be the reason why there is a lack of intimacy or sexual activity between husband and wife. 

But there are other reasons as well. In brief, an article on the Internet lists 5 possible causes for a lack of intimacy between married couples. 

This includes: 

  • He or she is an after thought
  • Your affection is divvied up. Slowly, but surely, we start passing out our affection to lots of stuff over the years. 
  • He or she doesn’t pay attention to you, due to other interests that have captured their imagination or wonder. 
  • He or she is cheating. This is one of the most concerning reasons as they may share the intimacy with another person thereby avoiding a physical relationship with their marriage partner. 
  • He or she is putting himself or herself first. 

While there are many more possible reasons, these may only emerge when the couple seeks counseling or are truthful with each other. 

Like any activity in a marriage, intimacy is a key ingredient, which makes the union successful.  

Sadly when the marriage lacks physical intimacy, it can lead to other enticing or even nasty avenues that can result in a split or divorce. 

So to answer the question my friend asked me, yes, some married couples may not have an active physical relationship, if they have one at all. 

Marriage is about compromise and unifying the love between husband and wife. It’s about giving and taking, but most importantly sharing and if one partner lacks and drifts off this institution, unfortunately it’s game over, or is it? 


Twitter: @FaizelPatel143


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21. 01. 15
posted by: Faizel Patel

I was in Pretoria this morning attending a conference at the Sheraton Hotel.

During one of the sessions my colleague brought to my attention one delegate who wore sandals scratching his toes right there in front of everyone!

The unsavory display of relieving itchy athlete’s feet drove us into fits of laughter while the session was going on. It was difficult to contain trust me, and probably childish and we were worried that we might make fools of ourselves. We almost walked out of the session because the laughter was bursting at edge of our mouths.

But on a serious note, who scratches their toes in a posh hotel at a conference with ministers, foreign dignitaries & ambassadors?

It's unethical and totally disgusting. Sies!

Well after that episode of ‘laughter is the best medicine’ & a very informative conference I left the city of Tshwane at 4pm...That's when the day turned pear shape!

The #%^%# traffic was horrible and ridiculous, from the time I left Pretoria until I got home 3 hours later at 7pm!

3 Hours of my life lost, just like that? How do people contend with this madness I cannot fathom.

If you do the math, sitting 6 hours a day in traffic equals 30 hours a week. That's 120 hours a month which equals to 5 days in traffic which people lose, just sitting in their cars and doing nothing!

If that’s not bad enough already add the stress, road rage, & you have a recipe for a disaster with a sign board that reads: Gauteng Freeway Improvement Project. Yeah right...

There has to be more to life than sitting in traffic. How many days have people lost, which they will never get back? Time which they could have better spent with their families or doing something constructive that makes their life more meaningful.

Life is way too short to be spent in a car swearing the guy in the car next to you or flipping the taxi with the finger because they didn't indicate or cut you off all the while accelerating your baldness due to you pulling your hair out because of the traffic that hasn't moved 10 meters in the last hour.

Frankly...we need more laughs and less to the guy scratching his toes: Thank you for making my day & giving me a laugh, it sure made my day even if the traffic did not.